@roxalaney

Hello, this is a masterpost detailing my gender and orientations. Some things to keep in mind:

I will use nonbinary and queer as umbrella terms to describe myself, at least in person.

I'm likely masking when it comes to my gender. I'm not against being a woman but I'm not strongly tied to it. I'm still unsure if that is due to a lack of gender or it's a neutral gender.

I am polyamorous but I'm not actively looking to expand my polycule at this time. Please do not try to be my friend in the hopes of hooking up with me.

Even though I use the pansexual label, I still primarily identify as graysexual.

Some names I've included are ones I've been mistaken for. I do not mind them.

However, please don't call me Meg(h)an for any reason. I will not outwardly express it but I hate when people assume that's my name.

While I'd love to put down all the public events in my calendar, I sadly have a limit and only added what is relevant to me and my partners.

Age: 33

Names

Words

Honorifics

Person and Family

Compliments

Relationships

  • friend
  • partner
  • girlfriend
  • wife
  • mistress
  • darling
  • lover
  • beloved
  • sweetheart
  • honey
  • sweetie
  • significant other
  • datemate
  • boo
  • enbyfriend
  • boyfriend
  • husband
  • kissmate
  • joyfriend

Calendar

  • January 22 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Trans Prisoner Day of Action and Solidarity
  • January 27 A black ribbon A black ribbon Alt text: A black ribbon International Holocaust Remembrance Day
  • February 1 – 28 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black Aromantic Awareness Month
  • February 12 Sexual and Reproductive Health Awareness Day
  • February 12 A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” Alt text: A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” Freedom to Marry Day (US)
  • February 15 Anniversary with BF
  • February 16 – 22 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week
  • February 19 International Day Against Homophobia in Sports
  • February 20 World Day of Social Justice
  • February 26 BF's Birthday
  • March 1 Zero Discrimination Day
  • March 1 – 31 A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Bisexual Health Awareness Month
  • March 3 An open red umbrella An open red umbrella Alt text: An open red umbrella International Sex Workers' Rights Day
  • March 24 – 28 A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple Alt text: A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple LGBT Health Awareness Week
  • March 31 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue International Trans Day of Visibility
  • April 1 A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple Alt text: A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple International LGBTI Book Day
  • April 6 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple International Asexuality Day
  • April 15 A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Bisexual Creators Day
  • April 20 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Nonbinary Parents' Day
  • May 4 Aplatonic Visibility Day
  • May 4 A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” Alt text: A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” International Family Equality Day
  • May 8 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple Asexual Visibility Day
  • May 14 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Trans Children and Youth Visibility Day
  • May 15 A rectangular flag with seven equal width horizontal stripes: red, light red, orange, yellow, blue, violet, purple. In the centre is a symbol resembling a four-striped rainbow, the bottom parts being connected by a horizontal line. In the middle of the symbol is an upside down five pointed star. A rectangular flag with seven equal width horizontal stripes: red, light red, orange, yellow, blue, violet, purple. In the centre is a symbol resembling a four-striped rainbow, the bottom parts being connected by a horizontal line. In the middle of the symbol is an upside down five pointed star. Alt text: A rectangular flag with seven equal width horizontal stripes: red, light red, orange, yellow, blue, violet, purple. In the centre is a symbol resembling a four-striped rainbow, the bottom parts being connected by a horizontal line. In the middle of the symbol is an upside down five pointed star. Xenogender Visibility Day
  • May 17 International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia
  • May 19 A rectangular flag with seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, lime green, white, grey, black A rectangular flag with seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, lime green, white, grey, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with seven equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, lime green, white, grey, black Agender Pride Day
  • May 24 A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue Pansexual & Panromantic Awareness Day
  • May 28 LGBTQ Domestic Violence Awareness Day
  • June 1 – 30 A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black Pride Month
  • June 2 An open red umbrella An open red umbrella Alt text: An open red umbrella International Sex Worker Day
  • June 5 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, grey, black Aromantic Visibility Day
  • June 12 A black ribbon A black ribbon Alt text: A black ribbon Pulse Night of Remembrance
  • June 28 A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black Anniversary of Stonewall Riots
  • July 1 – 31 A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple Alt text: A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple Queer Wrath Month
  • July 7 – 13 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Nonbinary Awareness Week
  • July 14 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black International Nonbinary People's Day
  • July 15 Day of Visibility for Non-monogamy
  • July 16 A rectangular flag with three equal-width vertical stripes: light purple, white and blue; emblem on the white field: a pink crown with three pointy ends. A rectangular flag with three equal-width vertical stripes: light purple, white and blue; emblem on the white field: a pink crown with three pointy ends. Alt text: A rectangular flag with three equal-width vertical stripes: light purple, white and blue; emblem on the white field: a pink crown with three pointy ends. Drag Day
  • August 1 – 31 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Transgender History Month
  • September 1 – 30 A yellow ribbon A yellow ribbon Alt text: A yellow ribbon Suicide Prevention Month
  • September 4 World Sexual Health Day
  • September 10 A yellow ribbon A yellow ribbon Alt text: A yellow ribbon World Suicide Prevention Day
  • September 16 – 22 A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Bisexual Awareness Week
  • September 21 GF's Birthday
  • September 23 A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with the following horizontal stripes: a wide pink, a narrow purple, and a wide blue Celebrate Bisexuality Day
  • September 26 Wedding Anniversary
  • October 1 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: yellow, white, purple, black Nonbinary Kids' Day
  • October 1 – 31 A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black Alt text: A rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side composed of stripes of the following colours (from the left): white, pink, light blue, brown, black LGBTQ+ History Month (US/Canada/Australia)
  • October 11 Coming Out Day
  • October 11 – 18 Hate Crime Awareness Week
  • October 15 Pronouns Day
  • October 19 – 25 A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple Alt text: A rectangular flag with four equal-width horizontal stripes: black, grey, white, purple Ace Week
  • October 22 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue International Day of Action for Trans Depathologization
  • October 26 A rectangular flag with a yellow background and a purple circle in the centre A rectangular flag with a yellow background and a purple circle in the centre Alt text: A rectangular flag with a yellow background and a purple circle in the centre Intersex Awareness Day
  • November 1 – 30 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue International Trans Awareness Month
  • November 8 A rectangular flag with a yellow background and a purple circle in the centre A rectangular flag with a yellow background and a purple circle in the centre Alt text: A rectangular flag with a yellow background and a purple circle in the centre Intersex Day of Remembrance
  • November 13 – 19 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Trans Awareness Week
  • November 18 LGBTQ+ STEM Day
  • November 20 A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with five equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, pink, white, pink, blue Transgender Day of Remembrance
  • November 23 A rectangular flag with three equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, red, dark purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side points between the upper and the middle stripe; emblem in the upper hoist quarter: a yellow heart rotated by 90°. A rectangular flag with three equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, red, dark purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side points between the upper and the middle stripe; emblem in the upper hoist quarter: a yellow heart rotated by 90°. Alt text: A rectangular flag with three equal-width horizontal stripes: blue, red, dark purple; a chevron (triangle) on the left side points between the upper and the middle stripe; emblem in the upper hoist quarter: a yellow heart rotated by 90°. Polyamory Day
  • December 1 A red ribbon A red ribbon Alt text: A red ribbon World AIDS Day
  • December 1 – 31 A red ribbon A red ribbon Alt text: A red ribbon AIDS Awareness Month
  • December 6 – 12 A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue Pan Week
  • December 7 A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” Alt text: A square logo with red background and a pink equality sign “=” Gender Expansive Parents' Day
  • December 8 A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue Alt text: A rectangular flag with three equal width horizontal stripes: pink, yellow, blue Pansexual Pride Day
  • December 15 A rectangular flag with seven equal width horizontal stripes: grey, light grey, light yellow, white, light yellow, light grey, grey A rectangular flag with seven equal width horizontal stripes: grey, light grey, light yellow, white, light yellow, light grey, grey Alt text: A rectangular flag with seven equal width horizontal stripes: grey, light grey, light yellow, white, light yellow, light grey, grey Demigender Awareness Day
  • December 17 An open red umbrella An open red umbrella Alt text: An open red umbrella International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers
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  • Card created: 2021-12-14
  • Card last updated: 2025-02-09
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